HEY, NO MAN IS AN ISLAND! WHY DO YOU LIKE TO BE ONE?

DO I? NO I DO NOT!! I LOVE TO BE AROUND FRIENDS TOO. BUT I LOVE TO BE AROUND THE FRIENDS THAT I LIKE.

I LIKE GOING TO MOVIES ALONE BECAUSE I CAN ONLY SIT AT THE BACK ROW SO I DON'T HAVE TO BE KICKED AT MY BACK BY SOME RUDE PEOPLE.

I GUESS I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DEFEND MYSELF. I LOVE TO BE ALONE MOST OF THE TIME BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN I AM ANTI SOCIAL OR I HATE BEING AROUND PEOPLE. I DO NOT HATE BEING AROUND PEOPLE WHO ENJOYS MY COMPANY OR THE ONES THAT I "CHOOSE" AND I "LIKE" TO BE CLOSE TO. WELL, YOU MAY PLAY FAVORITISM IN YOUR DAILY LIFE BUT NOT AT WORK THOUGH. I HAVE FEW FAVORITES TOO. I DON'T MIND LISTENING TO THEIR GRIEVANCES ONCE OR TWICE.

I LIKE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH A FEW NICE CLOSE AQUAINTANCES BUT I DO HAVE MY GOOD FRIENDS IN HONG KONG/VANCOUVER THAT WOULD PROTECT ME AND LIFT ME UP FROM THE GROUND IF I FALL. I DO NOT WISH TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF BY PEOPLE BUT DO NOT MIND TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY THE ONES WHO I LIKE. I DON'T HAVE TO TAKE BUT I LIKE TO GIVE ALOT. GIVING IS BETTER THAN TAKING..
HEY, I LIKE COMPANY OCCASIONALLY TOO BUT I DO NOT LIKED TO BE NOTICED MUCH WHEN I AM OFF STAGE. BUT WHEN I AM "ON STAGE", I MUST GET YOUR ATTENTION AND I WOULD MOVE MOUNTAINS TO MAKE YOU LIKE ME.

I DO NOT DO WELL WITH A FEW PEOPLE BUT I DO WELL IN FRONT OF GROUPS. I LIKE THE ATTENTION WHEN I AM PERFORMING BUT NEVER LIKED TO BE BOTHERED WHEN I AM AS MYSELF IN A RESTAURANT OR ANY PUBLIC PLACES.

WELL, LOOK AT MY PICTURES AGAIN. DO YOU SEE A NICE AND EASY GOING PERSON? IS HE THE KIND THAT YOU WOULD BULLY? OR WOULD YOU THINK HE WILL NEVER COMPLAIN? IF SO, PLEASE, PLEASE THINK AGAIN!! I LIKE MY SPLENDID ISOLATION BUT I ALSO AM VERY JUDGEMENTAL. YOU CANNOT BLAME ME. AFTER SO MANY YEARS IN THE TRAVEL INDUSTRY AND BEING A DEGREE HOLDER IN TRAVEL MANAGEMENT INDUSTRY, I CAN NEVER TOLERATE ANY BAD SERVICE IN A SERVICE RELATED INDUSTRY. I PERSONALLY THINK I HELP THEM INDIRECTLY THROUGH THE COMPLAINTS THAT I MADE. HOWEVER, I CAN BE TOLERANT TOO.
I AM A NO-NONSENSE KIND OF GUY. EVERY COMPLAINT I EVER MADE WAS REASONABLE AND WELL DESERVED TO BE LOOKED AT BY HIGHER AUTHORITIES.

AS FAR AS BEING A LONER AS CONCERNED, SOME PEOPLE TOLD ME THEY WOULD NEVER GO TO DO THINGS ALONE THEMSELVES. WELL, I WOULD NOT COMMENT ON THAT
BUT PERSONALLY, I FEEL CALM AND PEACEFUL WHEN I AM ENJOYING A MCDEAL MEAL IN A MACDONALD RESTAURANT ALONE.

I CAN DECIDE WHEN I WANT TO GO SEE MOVIES WITHOUT HAVING TO MEET UP WITH THE SCHEDULES OF MY FRIENDS. I CAN GO ANYWHERE I WANT AT ANY TIME AND DAY WITHOUT HAVING TO WAIT FOR ANYONE. TO YOU, I MAY BE CRAZY, BUT I AM LOVING IT!! BUT AGAIN, I AM NOT ANTI SOCIAL AND I STILL WELCOME YOUR INVITATIONS AND YOUR COMPANY.


ONCE IN A WHILE, I ENJOY PRACTISING KARAOKE ALONE IN A SINGING ROOM. I WELCOME GUESTS ONCE IN A WHILE BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU CAN CATCH UP WITH ME.
AS A LONER, I SEE EVERY KARAOKE PRACTICE AS FORMAL PERFORMANCE. I WILL CHALLENGE ALL THE DIFFICULT SONGS IN THE 5-6 HOURS OF MY PRECIOUS TIME. I WILL SING JAPANESE, ENGLISH, MANDARIN, CANTONESE, KOREAN, TAIWANESE AND SPANISH SONGS. IT MIGHT LOOK LIKE "SHOWING OFF' TO OTHERS WHO DO NOT KNOW ME. BUT I AM WHO I AM. I HAVE TO DO ALL OF THEM OR ELSE I CANNOT GO HOME. CAN YOU OR WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO STAND ME? BUT I AM HAPPY TO SING ALONE FOR HOURS. BUT GUESTS ARE WELCOME IF THEY DO NOT MIND ME SINGING MY HEART OUT.

MOST PEOPLE ENJOY SINGING AS A GAME OR PAST TIME, TO ME, IT IS ALWAYS A PERFORMANCE AND I HAVE TO GIVE IT MY ALL.


TO BE A HAPPY LONER:

HMMM, YOU NEED TO BE WILLING TO DO THINGS YOURSELF ALONE. GO FOR A WALK ALONE FOR 2 HOURS THEN VISIT A RESTAURANT OF YOUR CHOICE, WATCH A MOVIE OF YOUR FAVORITE ARTIST. FINALLY, GO ONLINE IN THE INTERNET.

"FREE SPIRITED"-"NO STRINGS ATTACHED" ARE MY FAVOURITE WORDS FOR NOW. I MAY ADOPT A FEW KIDS LIKE MISS ANGELINA JOLIE WHEN I AM AS FAMOUS AND RICH AS SHE IS.

RIGHT NOW, I AM HAPPY WITH THE THINGS I HAVE AND WHAT I AM.

..FEB 20TH, 2006

DEC 20TH, 2009.

HAVING BEEN BACK FROM VANCOUVER TO HKG FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS, I DECIDE TO FIND A PARTNER IF POSSIBLE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH.

I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY PARTNERS. I WOULD LIKE TO TRY TO FIND ONE.  I STILL ENJOY BEING A LONER BUT I ALSO WISH TO EXPERIENCE WHAT LIFE WOULD BE LIKE WITH A PARTNER. I HOPE BUDDHA/GOD WOULD SEND ME SOMEONE WHO I LOVE AND LOVE ME.